And be you kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you.
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Paul wants us to be gentle, approachable people, people who have left anger, bitterness, wrath and slander behind. If we are merciful and serene, taking the initiative in reaching out to others, our very approachability will overcome the shyness and fear of those for whom we reach out. .