Now concerning the things of which you wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
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Cornelius a Lapide
AD 1637
SYNOPSIS OF THE CHAPTER
In this chapter he answers five questions of the Corinthians about the laws of matrimony, and about the counsel of virginity and celibacy—
i. The first question is whether matrimony and its use are lawful for a Christian, as being born again and sanctified. The answer is that they are lawful, and that, moreover, when either party demands his due, it ought to be given, and that therefore it is better to marry than to burn.
ii. The second is (ver10) concerning divorce, whether it is lawful, and S. Paul answers that it is not.
iii. The third is (ver12), If a believer have an unbelieving partner, can they continue to live together? He answers that they both can and ought, if the unbeliever consents to live in peace with the believer.
iv. The fourth is (ver17) whether a man"s state is to be changed because of his faith; whether, e.g, a married person who was a slave when a heathen becomes free when a Christian, whether a Gentile becomes a Jew. He answers in the negative, and says that each should remain in his station.
v. The fifth is (ver25) whether at all events those who are converted to Christ as virgins ought to remain so. He replies that virginity is not enjoined on any as a precept, but that it is on all as a counsel, as being better than matrimony for six reasons:—
(a) Because of the present necessity, inasmuch as only a short time is given us for obtaining, not temporal but eternal gain: she that is a virgin is wholly intent in these things (ver26).
(b) Because he that is married Isaiah , as it were, bound to his wife with the wedding-bond, but the unmarried is free and unconstrained (ver27).
(c) Because the unmarried is free from the tribulation of the flesh which attacks the married (ver28).
(d) Because a virgin thinks only of what is pleasing to God, but one that is married has a heart divided between God and his wife (ver32).
(e) Because a virgin is holy in body and in soul, but the married not in body, and often not in soul (ver34).
(f) Because he that is unmarried gives his virgin an opportunity to serve God without interruption, whereas the married have a thousand hindrances to piety and devotion (ver35).