For what is it in which you were inferior to other churches, except it be that I myself was not burdensome to you? forgive me this wrong.
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John Chrysostom
AD 407
'You were partakers,' he says, 'of no less grace than the others.' But perhaps some one will say, 'What can be the reason that he turns the discourse upon the Apostles, abandoning the contest against the false Apostles?' Because he is desirous to erect their spirits yet further, and to show that he is not only superior to them, but not even inferior to the great Apostles. Therefore, surely, when he is speaking of those he says, I am more; but when he compares himself with the Apostles, he considers it a great thing not to be behind, although he labored more than they. And thence he shows that they insult the Apostles, in holding him who is their equal second to these men.
Except it be that I myself was not a burden to you? Again he has pronounced their rebuke with great severity. And what follows is of yet more odious import.
Forgive me this wrong. Still, nevertheless, this severity contains both words of love and a commendation of themselves; if, that is, they consider it a wrong done to them, that the Apostle did not consent to receive anything from them, nor relied on them enough to be supported by them. 'If,' says he, 'ye blame me for this:' he did not say, 'You blame me wrongly,' but with great sweetness, 'I ask your pardon, forgive me this fault.' And observe his prudence. For because the mooting this continually tended to bring disgrace upon them, he continually softens it down; saying above, for instance, As the truth of Christ is in me, this boasting shall not be stopped in me; 2 Corinthians 11:10 then again, Because I love you not? God knows.....But that I may cut off occasion from them that desire occasion, and that wherein they glory, they may be found even as we. Chap. 11:11, 12 And in the former Epistle What is my reward then? Verily, that when I preach the Gospel, I may make the Gospel without charge. 1 Corinthians 9:18 And here; Forgive me this wrong. For every where he avoids showing that it is on account of their weakness he takes not [from them]; and here not to wound them. And therefore here he thus expresses himself; 'If you think this to be an offense, I ask forgiveness.' Now he spoke thus, at once to wound and to heal. For do not say this, I pray you; 'If you mean to wound, why excuse it? But if you excuse it, why wound?' For this is wisdom's part, at once to lance, and to bind up the sore. Then that he may not seem, as he also said before, to be continually harping upon this for the sake of receiving from them, he remedies this [suspicion], even in his former Epistle, saying, But I write not these things that it may be so done in my case; for it were good for me rather to die, than that any man should make my glorying void; 1 Corinthians 9:15 but here with more sweetness and gentleness. How, and in what manner?
