I speak not by commandment, but to prove by the earnestness of others, the sincerity of your love.
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John Chrysostom
AD 407
I speak not by way of commandment.
See how constantly he humors them, how he avoids offensiveness, and is not violent nor compulsory; or rather what he says has both these, with the inoffensiveness of that which is uncompelled. For after he had repeatedly exhorted them and had greatly commended the Macedonians, in order that this might not seem to constitute a necessity, he says,
I speak not by way of commandment, but as proving through the earnestness of others, the sincerity also of your love.
'Not as doubting it,' (for that is not what he would here imply,) 'but to make it approved, display it and frame it unto greater strength. For I therefore say these things that I may provoke you to the same forwardness. And I mention their zeal to brighten, to cheer, to stimulate your inclinations.' Then from this he proceeded to another and a greater point. For he lets slip no mode of persuasion, but moves heaven and earth in handling his argument. For he exhorted them both by other men's praises, saying, You know the grace of God which has been given in the Churches of Macedonia; and by their own, therefore that you abound in everything, in utterance and knowledge. For this has power to sting man more that he falls short of himself, than that he does so of others. Then he proceeds afterwards to the head and crown of his persuasion.
