Yet count him not as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother.
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Polycarp of Smyrna
AD 155
I am deeply grieved, therefore, brethren, for him (Valens) and his wife; to whom may the Lord grant true repentance! And be ye then moderate in regard to this matter, and "do not count such as enemies"